I can understand people who say they don't like how tumblr call out culture can lead to bullying behaviors. That's fair. I don't get comments like this though.

Most the people I follow who post/reblog what you're talking about are women of color. I'm guessing they probably do, in fact, have some idea what misogyny and racism look like. While I'm sure you are the leading authority on What Actually Counts, how about you step down for a bit and listen to what others are saying. If people feel like fandom treats black characters and female characters poorly it might just be because it does.