Actually I'm the person that's fussing about a 32-year old dating a 22-year old, and that's literally because I'm 28 and the idea of dating someone that's 22 is so gross to me. I briefly dated a college girl a few years ago, and she was just SO YOUNG to me. We didn't have much in common. I felt super creepy about doing it, and it didn't last long.

Not because "ew, 30, gross" but more like, "ehhhhh it's easy to think that's not so creepy when you're on the young side but looking back that's weird"