Don't feel bad! I'm kinda in the same boat as you. Honestly, I think people who say these things are more trying to be contrarian than anything else("everyone is trying to do the same and it doesn't entertain me!"). I say well though luck, it's an interpretation of Finn's character as valid as yours.

Good luck and I hope Finn helps you deal with that stuff. That's what's great about getting involved in characters!