It starts off as hate sex, but somehow without either of them realizing it, they've fallen into a relationship. They're still evil assholes who bicker and want to control the galaxy, but they no longer want to destroy each other. They're both horrified and disgusted when they realize they're not only fond of each other, but they know those small details about each other that you only learn when you're dating someone.
Hux/Kylo Ren, accidental dating