Ben Solo never went to the dark side and is not Kylo Ren. He and Poe are happily married, except for one small problem...one of their moms (or even both) is waaaaay too overly-involved in their married life.
Whether it's Leia, leaving them wondering how she even finds the time to be this nosy and invested in their business, or a recently-retired Shara, who has nothing else to do with her time but be extra-smothering and motherly to her grown son and son-in-law. Maybe they've started harassing the boys about grandchildren and how they want "at least one grandbaby before I die". Either way, one of them cracks under the intensity of it, much to the amusement of their dads and friends.
Ben/Poe, Overly-Involved Parents
Whether it's Leia, leaving them wondering how she even finds the time to be this nosy and invested in their business, or a recently-retired Shara, who has nothing else to do with her time but be extra-smothering and motherly to her grown son and son-in-law. Maybe they've started harassing the boys about grandchildren and how they want "at least one grandbaby before I die". Either way, one of them cracks under the intensity of it, much to the amusement of their dads and friends.