Worth noting that the way that I, specifically, can make Poe work here is much more about consent, autonomy, and chauvinism than it is about IPV dynamics that we traditionally or easily recognize as abusive/violent. (Which is a fun challenge, and a very personal one, and was what made it able to click for me.) I hope that can still be your jam if played right!

Also no promises but I really like detailed prompts, the more like an outline the better, because I’m very lazy, so if OP or anyone else is interested and has more requests hmu.