Ooh, Ren making ominous remarks about how malformed he is, how hideous, how not right... Meanwhile he is, at worst, unconventionally attractive. And the only two people who know what he looks like under that getup, have no reason to CARE - Snoke is his master, and only cares how powerful his knight is, and General Hux has more important things to worry about than what this overgrown child he's been forced to work with looks like.

Growing up the child of two hot people probably didn't help... Particularly if he overheard the thoughts of any one of the many officious assholes Leia has to work with - you know at least one or two would think "how does someone so beautiful spawn something so... not." Or "shame he doesn't take more after his father; I hear he's quite the dashing rogue." ...That's if they didn't say it straight to the boy's face, attacking Leia by proxy.

So, yeah, seconded!