I just want a sexually well adjusted Kylo who has loads of consensual sex and is surprisingly good at negotiating sexual encounters (he's still shit at basically any other kind of sentient interaction). Just, Kylo who knows what he likes and is willing to try new things if his partner wants to and is very careful about boundaries. If you can make it serious that's good, but crack is fine too!

+ Hux (who doesn't get laid at all) is incredibly pissed because anytime he has to search out Kylo for something he has people in his rooms and they're doing INDECENT stuff!
+ Someone wants to have sex with him and assumes it's gonna be weird and violent and is disappointed when it's not (though Kylo could probably do weird and violent if asked)
+ Phasma. In any and all capacities.