Given how lovey-dovey the two of them are, with their casual touches, sweet, longing glances, public nuzzling/hair ruffling/general PDA of adorableness, everyone pretty much imagines that when they have sex it's the incredibly gentle, slow, staring-into-each-other's-eyes and murmuring-love-words-into-each-other's-ears.

A lot of the techs think it's the most romantic thing ever.

Except in reality, Finn and Poe live by the "Keep the fights clean and the sex dirty" rule, and they really have some crazy, adventurous, bendy animal sex.