OP here, mental illness in this would be more than welcome. That's my reason for the no fixing/rescue part in fact! I do not have a clear headcanon as to what he might have, but something he does have. At least some PTSD from the Snoke grooming for sure, plus rage/emotional regulation stuff.
Re: Hypersexual Kylo/anyone and everyone, slut shaming, maybe Kylux?
Thank you, anons :)