Phasma has been a sleeper agent or spy for Leia the entire time, that's the reason why she lowered the planetary shields. She actually has been in a loving marriage (can be an open marriage, too) with Poe for several years. He is quite turned on by her Stormtrooper cover. They have great reunion sex after the destruction of starkiller.
Inspired by this gif-set: http://poedamnerons.tumblr.com/post/138877450191/who-is-captain-phasma
+ Phasma feeling guilty about what she did as the Captain or better even feeling guilty about not really feeling guilty and having grown sort of comfortable with the dark side. + Confrontation with Finn. + Size kink! My love for not very tall men and really tall women is what brought this on in the first place.
Poe/Phasma - Phasma is a spy and married to Poe
Inspired by this gif-set: http://poedamnerons.tumblr.com/post/138877450191/who-is-captain-phasma
+ Phasma feeling guilty about what she did as the Captain or better even feeling guilty about not really feeling guilty and having grown sort of comfortable with the dark side.
+ Confrontation with Finn.
+ Size kink! My love for not very tall men and really tall women is what brought this on in the first place.