Poe is charming and flirtatious and everyone has had a crush on him at least once. But he's never dated anyone on the base, or kissed anyone, or had sex with anyone.....and shortly after Finn's arrival his curiosity becomes too much and he starts to ask around. Turns out no one knows anything about Poe's romantic life, they all assumed he was "married to his job" as it were, and simply didn't have the time/considered it unprofessional to sleep around with coworkers.

Truth is, Poe doesn't really like sex. He's tried it, with different people, different genders, but never enjoyed it. So now he doesn't do it.

It stops Finn's crush in its tracks, but the other pilots pat his shoulder. They've all been there before.