So the skywalker/organa/solo clan always has christmas/life day/holidy of your choice together, and luke's really worried about rey bringing home her boyfriend, finn. he actively complains about it to leia and han, worrying about whether or not this finn guy is good enough for his daughter. finn turns out to be really awesome, and it eases most of luke's worries.

then ben shows up with hux and han nearly self destructs. luke realizes how easy he has it compared to that